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Friday, December 22, 2017

Big Companies to Work For



The 50 Best Big Companies to Work For of 2017, According to Employees appeared in MSN Money. My 16-year-old son and 14-year-old daughter would be interested in number 43 because they play League of Legends.


Highest and Lowest Paying Jobs



Want to make good money? Become a pharmacist, data scientist, or tax manager. The lowest paying jobs are in restaurants. The 25 Highest and Lowest Paying Jobs appeared on MSN Money. 

Jobs Nobody Thinks Of



Want to make some bucks? How about being a cruise ship performer, an ethical hacker, or embalmer? 15 Odd Jobs That Pay Insanely Well appeared on MSN Money. 



Sunday, December 17, 2017

1st Grader Asks for Food & Blanket for Christmas



What does a 7-year-old girl want for Christmas? 1st Grader Asks for Food, Blanket in Heartbreaking Letter to Santa appeared on Yahoo! News.

Homeless to Billionaire



John Paul DeJoria was homeless at one point in his life. Now he is heading one of the most successful haircare companies in the world. That in itself is amazing but his values for his company are even more impressive. John Paul DeJoria Went From Homeless to Billionaire by Following Three Simple Rules appeared in MSN News.

Sunday, December 10, 2017

Which Debt to Pay Off 1st



When paying off debt, should you pay off the highest interest debt or the one you owe the least on? According to this video on MSN Money, the math says to pay off the highest interest debt first, but motivation says pay off the smallest debt so you have a sense of accomplishment. 

Sunday, December 3, 2017

Money in the Bank


We have talked a lot about getting out of debt. Now let’s turn our attention to what to do when you’re free from the chains of owing. We are talking about investing your money so that it grows. The safest thing to do with your money is to simply put it in the bank, a savings account that collects interest. On the pro side, money in the bank is protected by the federal government. That means your savings account at the bank is insured up to $250K even if the bank goes under. There’s no risk of losing your money no matter what happens to the economy. And your money is fluid, meaning that it isn’t tied up for long periods of time. You can deposit or take out money without penalties.

Remember we discussed socking away 3-6 months of expenses into an emergency fund? A savings account is a good place to park that money because it’s safe and accessible. A savings account isn’t paying a lot of interest, but that’s okay. You want your emergency fund to be safe, not to make you a ton of money when the stock market goes up.

There are different types of accounts you can open at the bank and most of them are insured by the federal government. Here are some of these accounts and what they do:

·         Savings Account

·         Checking Account

·         Money Market Account

·         Certificate of Deposit

What about savings accounts at online banks? If you go into a brick and mortar bank such as Bank of America or Chase, your savings account would pay you .01 percent interest at the time I’m writing this article. That’s not a lot. If you deposited $1000 (minimum to have in your emergency fund) into your savings account at the beginning of the year, at a .01 percent interest rate, you would have a whopping ten cents of interest at the end of the year!

However, if you put that same $1000 into a savings account at an online bank such as Goldman Sachs (also federally insured and the online bank I use), which pays 1.30 percent interest, you would have $13.08 cents of interest at the end of the year. You would not have a brick and mortar store to walk into but if you are comfortable doing all your banking online, your rate of return is a lot better. How do you make deposits and withdrawals when there’s no building to walk into? I connect my online savings accounts at Goldman Sachs with my brick and mortar checking account at a local credit union and move money back and forth that way. I still have the convenience of going to a physical building and I can move money back and forth online between these accounts. It takes a few business days of processing time between the credit union and the online accounts, but that’s not a problem for me.

Again, we’re not talking about making a killing at the stock market with these savings rates. The goal with an emergency fund savings is to keep the money fluid and accessible and earn a little interest at the same time. We will be discussing other investment vehicles that can bring greater returns in future posts.




Sunday, November 26, 2017

Wonder



My family saw Wonder this weekend at the theater, and I urge you to see it. As an author, it's the kind of story I wish I had written. When given a choice between being right or being kind, how many of us choose kindness?


Funeral for a Neighbor


I went to a funeral for my neighbor, George T. Craig, last week. He was 77 and died from pancreatic cancer. We have lived next door to George and his wife, Sharyn, in Rancho San Diego since 2002. George wasn’t famous so people probably aren’t going to write books about him. He wasn’t an actor, although he did bear a resemblance to Bob Hope. George wasn’t an athlete or renowned musician. He wasn’t in politics and didn’t appear on television. He was a mechanical engineer who taught at San Diego State University before retiring in 2006. He was also a loving husband, a devoted father and grandfather, an avid golfer, and a man of faith who attended the same church with his wife since 1969.   

I can’t say that George and I were close. We were neighbors. We greeted each other in the morning while he was getting the newspaper and I was heading off to work. We sometimes ran into each other on Saturday afternoons on the way to the community mailbox across the street. George, in a plain T-shirt and shorts, would ask about my job at the community college, if we were keeping our enrollment up. We would chat about the weather, the scorching hot spells in San Diego that made him yearn for overcast skies and even rain. I am an introvert so it isn’t easy to get me talking, but George made the effort to engage me in neighborly small talk on a regular basis.

George would let us know when he and Sharyn were going on vacations so we could keep an eye out on their house, and we would do the same. Maybe this is a holdover from the past, a bygone era when Leave It To Beaver and Father Knows Best were television staples because the Craigs are the only neighbors I can recall doing this with. But if this is something considered antiquated in this “Look out for Number One” society, I say let’s turn back the clock.

When my children were younger, I would take them to George’s house first for trick or treating at Halloween. George would be the one passing out candy and he would try, often unsuccessfully, to guess our kids’ costumes. 

My wife, Quyen, loves to decorate for Christmas, and she would string lights throughout the front yard, attach illuminated Santas and sparkling snowflakes to the windowsills, weave flashing swirls around tree trunks, and even our shrubs would twinkle with holiday lights. George would rave about Quyen’s creativity, and this recognition always brought a smile to my wife’s face. On Christmas Eve, I would leave a gift-wrapped bottle of Martinelli’s on George’s porch and he would bring over a jar of Sharyn’s homemade peanut brittle on Christmas day.  

One winter, I took my son, Kevin, with me to run some errands, and Quyen was outside watering her plants with our daughter, Kristie. I had inadvertently locked the door, and Quyen was unable to get into the house. She had no way to reach me. She also had a customer scheduled that morning at the hair salon she worked at. Quyen went to George’s house and tried to call me, but my cell phone was turned off. So Quyen told George and Sharyn about her predicament and they drove her and Kristie to the hair salon in Mira Mesa, a good 20 miles from home.  

Another time, I had already left for work when the power shut down in East County. Quyen went to George to ask for help because the garage door remote wasn’t functioning. He showed her how to manually open and close the garage so she could take the kids to school.

George was that kind of neighbor; he was always there when we needed him, and I can’t tell you how much that meant to us. Rest in peace, George T. Craig. Thank you from our family for being our good neighbor and friend. We’re going to miss you.  

Wednesday, November 22, 2017

Black Friday Mistakes



You could be doing Black Friday all wrong. Reader's Digest gives you the scoop on mistakes you could be making when you shop on Black Friday. 10 Ways You're Doing Black Friday All Wrong appeared on MSN Lifestyle.

Black Friday Insider Knowledge



What do the employees who work on Black Friday say about this shopping day? Many items have been on sale at the same price previously. Some stores mark up the retail price to make you think you're getting a better deal. If you want Thanksgiving back as a holiday, don't shop on this day. 11 Insider Facts Most Black Friday Workers Know -- And You Probably Don't appeared on MSN News.

Sunday, November 19, 2017

Negotiate a Higher Salary



When you are offered a job, you can increase your chances of getting what you want with one sentence. How to Negotiate a Higher Job Offer in Just One Simple Sentence appeared on MSN Money. 

Don't Overspend for the Holidays



Black Friday, Cyber Monday, Sales, Discounts, Internet, Gifts, Frenzy. Yes, these are all part of the holiday season, but there are ways to avoid spending too much. 9 Expert Tips to Avoid Overspending During the Holidays appeared on Deal News.

Save $ on Rent, Utilities, Insurance, and More



Did you know you can negotiate a lower rent payment? California residents can take advantage of an app that will refund you money when you cut your electricity use during peak times. Or buy your car insurance per mile if you don't drive a lot. Try a less expensive cell phone provider. This Is How to Save Money on the Expensive Monthly Bills You Can't Escape appeared in the Penny Hoarder. 

Friday, November 10, 2017

Veterans Day



Thank you, Veterans. We honor you with gratitude and appreciation for your service to our country.




Military Father Surprises 8-Year-Old Son

What's the best thing that can happen to an 8-year-old at school? How about a surprise visit from his father?

Surprised Son Can't Let Go As Military Dad Comes Home appeared on MSN Video.

Saturday, November 4, 2017

Debt Eliminated!

In the past few weeks, we have gone through some steps to get out of debt using The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey:

  • Develop a budget.
  • Establish an emergency fund of $1000.
  • List debts from smallest to largest.
  • Cut unnecessary expenses.
  • Pay off the smallest debt first, then move that money into the next debt on the list.
Using this method, you will wipe out the debt from your life. Once you do this, celebrate your achievement (not a trip to Europe because that will only create more debt!). Something a little less extravagant like a dinner with your family or significant other at your favorite restaurant (something you have been holding off on because you have been scrimping to pay off debts).

After you have enjoyed a hearty meal and patted yourself on the back, you will get back to the business of saving. I know what you’re thinking: “What??? But I thought I accomplished my goal.” 

You have accomplished one goal. Getting out of debt is freeing and empowering, but imagine the kind of life you can lead if you had enough money. If you won the Lotto, what would you do with your life? Retire? Travel? Become a foster parent? Run a literacy program? Write the next great American novel? Learn to play the electric guitar? Volunteer at a homeless shelter?

I’m not advocating for playing the Lotto because of the odds. But there is a way to have the financial freedom we are talking about and Dave Ramsey’s book is the roadmap to get there. 

After your debts are eliminated, increase your emergency fund from $1000 to 3-6 months of average expenses (remember you don’t have debt so this won’t take as long as you think). How much do you need in the emergency fund? Look at the budget you’ve created and see how much you spend every month. Then multiply that number by 3 or 6 depending on how safe you want to be. Why is this necessary? 

Because you want to be a Boy Scout (motto: be prepared) when life happens. An emergency fund is essential when Murphy comes calling. 

In my next post, we will discuss investing your money to have the kind of future you dream about.  

Sunday, October 29, 2017

Which Debt to Tackle First?

Okay, so I've discussed the problem with debt and the need to establish a budget and emergency fund. Now we need to talk about the actual debts you have. Again, this information comes from The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey. List your debts from smallest to largest in terms of how much you owe (do not include your monthly mortgage or rent payment). By the way, if you have balances on more than one credit card, you might want to consolidate them into one because it's much easier to hit one target than three or four. If you don't believe me, try juggling one tennis ball, then two, then three, and four.

Example:
  1. Washer and Dryer -- $969.78 debt ($100.00 a month)
  2. Car                      -- $7470.30 debt ($377.50 a month)
  3. Credit Card/s      -- $8211.00 debt ($120.00 a month)
  4. Student Loan    --$21,000.00 debt ($300.00 a month)
Once you have listed all your debts, you are going to work on the smallest debt first. Why the smallest? Because it's the first one you can eliminate and you will actually see the progress you are making. In the above example, it's the washer and dryer. At the current rate of $100 a month, it will take ten months to pay off this debt. 

However, you are going to marshal all your resources to knock the debt off sooner. This doesn't mean that you stop making payments on your other debts. It means you stop buying anything you don't need, and yes, that includes the daily Salted Caramel Mocha Frappuccino from Starbucks. If you must have your daily coffee fix, brew your own at home and take it with you. You might have to cancel the gym membership and walk or bike at the park instead. And check out whether another cell phone company can save you money. 

Let's say that through cutting back on some unneeded expenses, you are able to devote $150 a month to your washer and dryer payment. You will eliminate this first debt in 6.5 months instead of 10. Once you can scratch that debt off your list, you take the $150 a month you used to pay off the washer/dryer and devote it to the car payment. You will be paying $527.50 instead of $377.50 a month toward the car. Instead of taking 20 months to pay off the car, it now takes you a little over 14 months. Then you work on the credit card/s, and finally, the student loan.

In my next post, we'll talk about what to do once you've reached that exalted state of euphoria called being debt free.